We were not born to be losers. We were made with a purpose and by a plan. We are part of the plan. I often question the mental aspect of telling yourself everyday that you can make something happen today whether it's an A or a D.
In each and every part of man, there's always that motivational factor that we hope pushes us further than usual. It can go from a small click that pushes you to a large smack on the face that we often get. The question sometimes is whether or not we can handle the responsibility of taking care of ourselves. Times have changed where in people are more independent. The Asian culture of our life has always taught us that we need to win the big battles in life. We need to win in college or at work or make the most money. Thankfully there are those who still remember to win at home, being home for the kids or the parents or the house. Little victories such as making dinner or reading to a child make life more worth while and give us that motivation to work harder on our bigger victories. Sure making money is a big motivation, earning the paycheck to pay for a new home or a new car. It's all in the big world of the human mind that we would someday be set for life with no problems but what are they really? They are simply things that will keep you at home with no worries of the big problems so that you can win your little victories or giving the house the life that it needs which is you. Let's face it, the real victory is not making money but finding one's purpose in the world. Finding out how much your worth in life.
I sincerely believe that I needed to succeed on a higher level not from the one high step to another but from the bottom ground even when you fall. We need to learn how to make adjustments that can change the results of our labor. At the same time, we need to realize that time is precious. Whether I put my time in the little victories or big victories, nothing in my result will change. It will only change if I don't put in the effort in which case I take longer to finish this race in life. So rather what is the result or purpose or end game that I will get, why not ask how long will I get there? Why not do some things now rather than wait?
Valentine's day is just around the corner. There's that one lonely person for another, how long will it be before you accompany them today? It doesn't have to be your girlfriend or boy friend or the person you like, it can be just someone in need that you know is in need of a friend. How long are you going to get there? In this case we know that the result can't be always love but the result one's action can be fruitful to another, there's an end game on Monday. I just question if I decide to put off that time or use that time a little wiser and just go.
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